>why are we judged by our doings, 

#/#>because everyone can be 

not being?
#/#> doing is the difference 

> why is not being the difference? 
> everyone *is* different 

 
>how can I be so satisfied with sitting in front of this terminal instead of ... ? 
 
#/#> and that difference is expressed by different doings.. reactions ..  feelings 

> why can't the difference be expressed by .. being .. is feeling doing? 

so a discussion followed about our being-feeling-doing - relationships and our human relationships - afterall we're close friends and that's what really counts. 

that's what i mailed yesterday too. friendship is a place where you are appreciated as what you are, not valued based on what you do. it's not all there is but a nice aspect to life. as an/y/thing. 

.  an[flutter]